There is a misconception running around that once you have found your perfect mate, they will be the best of everything that you both want and need.  That somehow this knight in shining armor or princess of the palace will be able to magically: check off all the items on your spousal wish list, do…
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In every book, seminar and class on the topic of “Finding Mr. or Mrs. Right,” they tell you to create “The List.”  ”The List” should detail all the traits you would like to find in your mate.  Some lists have you rank them by “must have,” “would be nice,” and “icing on the cake.”  The…
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There’s an old marriage joke that I’ve learned to appreciate over time. Marriage Veteran: “So, how’s married life coming?” Newlywed: “You know, things aren’t going as well as I thought they would.” Marriage Veteran: “What’s wrong?” Newlywed: “I’m not happy!” Marriage Veteran: “Not happy? You’re married, no one said anything about you being happy.” The…
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ReVeal: A Singles Retreat ME Resort – Cancun Mexico May 25-28th, 2012 All too often it’s said a good man or a good woman are hard, if not impossible to find. Well, this singles retreat will address the myths, rumors, and assumptions single men and women face while dating. Join other singles from around the…
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“She’s cheating on you.” “I still love her.” “He always disrespects you in front of us.” “That’s just how he is, I still love him.” “Dude, she’s spending all of your money.” “It’s alright, I love her.” “I saw him kissing another woman.” “Everyone cheats, it’s o.k. I still love him” Love, love, love.  Just…
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